I finally revealed to my friend K the evil brother of her boyfriend whom she hates is my ex boyfriend recently over lunch.

Just an fyi and for her to make an informed decision if the time comes for her to select her bridesmaids. I would definitely help out and attend if she asks. If she doesn’t, I will understand.

It would be fun to see my ex’s jaw drop when he see me after so many years. Shall I act like I am innocent like it’s such a small world? Or shall I go up and say hi and greet their parents as well?

Not important anymore because I might end up not being invited due to sensitivity of the people and the relationships involved.

It does not sound like there will be a wedding soon. Great because there is no pressure for me to lose weight for now.

I didn’t kick myself after knowing he is doing very well and has three kids, took over his dad company and living on a landed property now. If we are still together we might have more than three kids. He might not be doing so well if he is with me.

His wife probably didn’t know he and I were still in an intimate relationship even after we broke up which was the time they met and got together. I was really hurt when I found out but she doesn’t have to know and it’s best if it remain this way.

K was shocked at the revelation and asked what I saw in the guy and why I dated the guy for so long and why it took me so long to get over him.

I can only say…

Sing to the chorus of 鬼迷心窍

有人问我你究竟是哪里好
那么多年我还忘不了
春风再美也比不过你的蓝鸟
没见过的人不会明了

When you get it… 😆