“Want to come my house?” Gosh. The little one kept inviting girls over to our place. Only girls, not boys.

Playmates and neighbours aside but even random girls he got to know from the playground.

There is a pattern. Tall (taller) girls with long hair and slim. LYes, I noticed this since he turned 18 months.

I think he’s definitely straight.

In time to come, he will be bringing friends and then girlfriends home.

At what age do you teach your child about birds and bees? I know I told him not to enter people’s bedrooms but it was out of courtesy.

It is probably a child and mother’s bond. He tend to like resting his head in between my boobs.

Taking the chance, I started teaching him about not touching other people’s chest and also highlighted not to touch his female classmates and his teachers chest when he touched mine.

Not only that, he tends to hold hands with his female friends while running around. It could be innocent now but I probably need to teach him about the meaning of holding hands with the opposite sex soon.

This led to me thinking, are douchebags, bastards and idiots they way they are because they are not taught at home or are they just the way they are?

Being treated poorly growing up and past failed relationships don’t give you a reason to be evil and nasty in future relationships.

At least I know I do not want to be the reason others blame for my son’s bad behaviour (“Your mother never teach you?”).

Dear son, abstinence is the best contraceptive. If you do sleep with someone in future, use protection and also make sure she is someone you like, someone you want as your potential children’s mum.

Even if she is a FWB, make sure she is someone you will be responsible for.

If you do get someone pregnant, talk to mama and be responsible for your actions.

I want my grandchild. Never mind that I am older than many mums. I might be in time to be a grandmother before I turn 60. 儿子加油！