While at spin class, I can’t help but feel that the bouncing positions are so similar to what people can do at home with their partners. That applies to yoga too.

Question: Why are people paying to exercise if they can get a workout for free at home?

Answer: Their home workout probably don’t last very long, that is they have someone to do it with.

Gone are the days when sex was impromptu and fun.

Why do married women not want to have sex? I thought of this when I was in my 20s when I hear stories of wives rejecting their husbands.

The middle age me now has the answer. On the topic of sex alone, what is the point of having sex when it ends after a few minutes?

From experience, half fucks, soft dick and erectile dysfunction are not enjoyable.

Sometimes I thought it is only a few minutes. I can deal with a few minutes, but most of the time I felt like a waste of time and I still have to clean up the mess and handle the leftover discharge throughout the day.

Currently, I am at the “I am having a headache” and “I am having a bad mood so don’t come near me” stage.

Easy for the man. Discharge and go. They can simply wear a condom.

Women usually get fingers pointed at them for refusing sex. Have men ever thought about poor performances? If it is enjoyable and makes us feel good about ourselves, who wouldn’t want it?

It is just like work. Shouldn’t you try to do better instead of blaming others? Alas, the norm is to look for something or someone new and perceived better.

You really can’t rely on current skills, use the same tricks again and expect to get more.

Learn new skills, step up on foreplay. Then again, all foreplay and minimal penetration also sucks. There has to be a balance.