“Very long never do already,” the husband lamented.

“When you want to give me?” He asked again.

Irritated, I told him whenever he decided to put in effort in the relationship and when I am satisfied then he will be getting it.

A nice meal? You mean order via food delivery platform what I want to eat or food from the nearby coffeeshop? Not even a nice cafe. Seriously….

Date nights? Last planned one by him was in 2022. Most recent one a few months back was me doing the booking.

Gifts on special occasions? Nil.

Random one? Don’t even think about it.

Why is date night out of the picture after marriage and kid?

I love my child but bringing kiddo along everywhere is not a date.

Telling me the money is all with me is rubbish because you do have your own credit cards right?

Aware of the simple stuff but yet not willing to put in effort.

Do men ever remember the effort they used to put in when chasing after their woman? Fine, blowjobs, foreplay and sex can stop then.

No effort, no mood, no sex.