By now, I would have nearly recovered from my hysterectomy operation with no complications and I look forward to period and cramp free days ahead.

Truth be told, I had my will and trust done before going for the surgery. I had been putting it off for sometime and I only felt the urgency to complete it now.

My financial advisor asked me to do up one after I got married and I put it off even after my near death episode after child birth two years ago.

At this stage, I didn’t want the interstate succession act to take effect in case anything happens to me.

I wanted to make sure he don’t benefit greatly financially in the unfortunate event of my death going forward. He gets the HDB and the other properties as those are joint assets.

I also wanted to be sure my son, nieces and nephews get everything under my name and not some other women in the unforeseeable future.

People asked why I don’t leave everything to my son. I made those big financial decisions with my nieces and nephews in mind before I started dating, got married and have a kid. I want the kiddos that share my blood get something. That’s why it’s called legacy I guess.

The will will only take effect in the event of death and I got a corporate trustee to execute my will. I don’t want any of my living adult relatives to curse me having to execute my will even after I am buried six feet under or returned to earth in ashes.

In no man I trust.

In no one I trouble.

In will I trust. Amen.